Spending the holidays alone doesn’t have to feel lonely. While Japan’s festive season is full of illuminations, Christmas markets, and joyful cheer, it can sometimes feel a little overwhelming for those of us who are on our own. But honestly? It’s the perfect opportunity to do exactly what you want—whether that means treating yourself, discovering new places, or simply relaxing at home. If you’re spending the holidays solo this year, here are seven thoughtful and exciting ways to make it a fulfilling and memorable time just for you.

1. Go on a Trip

 

If you’ve been dreaming of visiting a new part of Japan, the holidays are your chance to make it happen. Traveling solo means you get to move at your own pace, explore without compromise, and discover hidden gems only you might stumble upon. Whether it’s a scenic retreat to Hakone for hot springs and stunning winter views, Kyoto for serene temples dusted with snow, or Okinawa to escape the cold entirely, Japan has endless destinations to make your trip special.

I spent one holiday exploring the winter markets in the Kanto Area, and it turned into one of my favorite solo experiences—hot cocoa in hand, surrounded by festive lights. Another time, I went to see beautiful winter illuminations all by myself and enjoyed visiting cozy cafes afterward. It was such a peaceful experience. One year, I even took things up a notch and went skiing in Nagano by myself—it turned out to be both exhilarating and serene and one of my best solo trips yet. Don’t hold back! Treat yourself to a solo adventure, and enjoy the freedom of traveling alone.

2. Attend Social Gatherings this Holiday Season

 

If you’re craving some company during the holidays, there are plenty of social gatherings and events in Japan to check out. Look for local meetups, expat gatherings, or Christmas events through platforms like Meetup, Facebook groups, or even community bulletin boards. Cities like Tokyo and Osaka often host international Christmas parties, English-speaking social events, and networking gatherings where you can meet new people and share the holiday cheer.

In addition to attending these events, why not reconnect with friends you haven’t seen in a while? The holidays are often the best time to catch up, especially if your friends live far away or have busy lives. I always look forward to meeting old friends during this season—it makes the holidays feel even more special. Being around others, even just for a few hours, can add a warm and festive touch to your solo holiday.

3. Cook New Holiday Japanese Recipes

 

The holidays are a great time to get creative in the kitchen. Whether you’re making your favorite comfort food, trying out a Japanese recipe like oden or soba, or baking holiday treats from your home country, cooking can be both fun and therapeutic.

I’ve spent holidays experimenting with recipes like strawberry shortcakes (a classic Japanese Christmas dessert) and even attempted my first nabe hotpot. Shopping for ingredients at local markets and creating something delicious for yourself is so rewarding. I also love shopping at Costco during the holidays—their markdown prices and delicious seasonal foods are unbeatable, even if the crowds are a little crazy! Don’t let that stop you, though—cook something you’ve never tried before, set up a feast for yourself, and enjoy it while watching your favorite TV show.

4. Plan for Your Next Year in Japan

 

There’s something about the quiet and calm of the holiday season that makes it the perfect time for reflection and planning. Grab a notebook, your laptop, or a vision board, and start mapping out your goals for the upcoming year.

Think about what you want to achieve—whether it’s professional goals, personal growth, travel plans, or new hobbies. Write down actionable steps to get there, and don’t forget to reflect on everything you’ve accomplished this year, too. Scroll through your camera roll and reminisce about the highlights of your year. Write down the goals you had at the start of the year—what did you accomplish, and what’s still left to tackle? Plan for next year: set financial goals, list new places to visit, and create savings plans to achieve your dreams. It’s a peaceful and productive way to prepare for the year ahead.

5. Clean and Declutter Your Place

 

If you’re like me, the idea of starting the new year with a clean and organized home is incredibly satisfying. The holidays are the perfect time to declutter your space and give your apartment a fresh start.

In Japan, this concept is called Oosouji (大掃除), a traditional end-of-year cleaning to welcome the new year with a clean slate. Take this time to throw away unnecessary items—old clothes, trinkets, or unused decor you’ve kept for too long. Go shopping for new home decor and redecorate your space to make it as cozy and homely as possible. Trust me, having a fresh, organized space will leave you feeling lighter and ready for the year ahead.

6. Read Books and Meditate on the Holiday

 

Take the opportunity to slow down and focus on your mental and emotional well-being. Pick up a book you’ve been meaning to read or try audiobooks if you prefer to listen while relaxing. Whether it’s a self-help book, a captivating novel, or a cozy manga series, reading can be the perfect escape.

This is also the perfect time to meditate and focus on yourself. Throw away all your anxiety and prioritize your well-being. Finish that book you’ve been stalling on, take long naps, and just focus on your needs. Pair your meditation with calming music, a cup of tea, and a warm blanket, and you’ve created the ultimate sanctuary at home.

7. Self-Care: Go to a Salon, Spa, or Onsen

 

What better time than the holidays to treat yourself to some well-deserved self-care? In Japan, options for pampering yourself are endless. Book a massage at a local spa, refresh your hairstyle at a salon, or spend a few hours soaking in a relaxing onsen (hot spring). If you can, head out to a traditional ryokan for a full-on self-care retreat, complete with yukata robes, beautiful scenery, and delicious meals.

Even small acts of self-care—like having a spa day at home with face masks, candles, and a warm bubble bath—can make a big difference. Go shopping and calculate how much savings you have. Buy that special thing you’ve been dying to get for yourself all year—it’s your reward for everything you’ve accomplished. Whether it’s a treat, a new outfit, or a luxury experience, show yourself some love because you absolutely deserve it.

The Holidays, Your Way

Spending the holidays alone doesn’t have to be lonely. It’s a chance to focus on yourself, reflect, and create meaningful moments in your own way. Whether you choose to explore new places, meet new people, or simply enjoy the peace and quiet of your own company, there’s so much you can do to make this season special.

So go ahead and plan your perfect solo holiday—because you deserve to enjoy every bit of it! Wishing you warmth, joy, and a magical holiday season, no matter where or how you spend it.

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